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Better Schools

School Fundraising: What Have I Gotten Myself Into?

Fiona Highet on the joys and not-joys of school fundraising

givins/shaw public school

One afternoon we precooked 600 sausages. We started at 3:30 and finished around 7:30. We went back to the school at 6am the next morning, still reeking of pork, to reheat those selfsame sausages. What we learned by 9am was that we really only needed 400.

The next pancake breakfast, we bypassed the pancake mix in the overcrowded aisle at Costco because we were certain we already had two full bags. That night, as we were cooking the 400 sausages we realized that the pancake mix was probably “compromised by vermin” in the months that had passed and we were now at 7pm – batterless. What we learned was a little about taking inventory and much more than we wanted to know about vermin in the school.

pancake breakfast

Dare to Draw

Dare to Draw Assignment Day #1: Draw a Hero

Check out what our Dare to Draw  participants are creating today!

ET Canada‘s Rick Campanelli and his main man Noah share their triumphant heroes.

Sloan‘s Andrew Scott and actress Fiona Highet proudly hold up their family masterpieces.

If you have kids who are empowered to care, get them in on our dare! It’s not too late to join our team to help raise raise money to support families affected by HIV/AIDS in Africa. Like our Facebook page to keep up with our crafty community throughout January!

Six Weeks Without My Family

Finally Headed Home To My Family Again

Fiona Highet is working on a play in Winnipeg while her family’s in Toronto

About two weeks prior to leaving Winnipeg for home I stopped having any interest in observing the situation.  I have learned that two hours of good times per day is simply not enough for me. I stopped buying groceries. I learned that I can live on hummus. One week to departure I had one suitcase fully packed. I have reviewed my itinerary 40, 000 times. Two more sleeps. The river is rising – it is time to go.

In the interest of reconnecting, Andrew and I have booked us all in to Great Wolf Lodge for two days when I get home. We’ll pull the kids out of school and spend one night there – a place neither of us have even a passing interest in going (more like a justified aversion), yet the kids have wanted to go and we want to be together, just the four of us. I shall pay for my time away.

Six Weeks Without My Family

Betwixt and Between: The Halfway Mark

Fiona Highet is working on a play in Winnipeg while her family’s in Toronto

The rivers are no longer frozen and not yet thawed. The show is up and running but still a long way from over. I’m just past the half way mark and I feel kind of half way about everything. I need groceries but I have to finish everything I’ve already bought. I want to go out to karaoke and have a bunch of drinks and take advantage of being able to sleep in, but I don’t quite have the energy. I’m halfway through season five of Friday Night Lights and halfway through the biography of Cleopatra. My winter coat and boots feel like a little more than what’s required but I’m not here long enough to justify buying anything new. And I miss my family, but not nearly as much as I did. I’ve gotten used to not breaking up squabbles and doling out snacks, and I’m playing the same record over and over and no one is complaining. I love doing the play every night, but as far as being away from home goes, I’m crawling to the finish line, no longer interested in the race. Freedom is wasted on me.
Thank heaven for the audience…

Six Weeks Without My Family

In the Company of Women

Fiona Highet is working on a play in Winnipeg while her family’s in Toronto

Here’s the thing about the theatre – for the period of time in which you are rehearsing and performing you become part of a family, for better and worse, and with an intensity and commitment that only those who devote their lives to the art of pretend can conjure. So while it is true that I miss my family and ache for them daily like a phantom limb, I must admit that I am now swaddled in a most exceptional family, that although impermanent, is deep and true and providing me with comforts I didn’t anticipate and now wonder how I’ve lived without.

Six Weeks Without My Family

Selkirk Settlers and Project Self-Knowledge

Fiona Highet is working on a play in Winnipeg while her family’s in Toronto

In this first week I have received 13 emails from my daughter, most of which have flowers or cupcakes in them from some app on her iPod Touch. On Skype every morning, my son has shown me the Star Wars lego character he’s eating breakfast with and has amused himself by making silly faces into the camera. Andrew and I have emailed and spoken on the phone at least once a day. I’ve sent the kids cards by Canada Post. We have employed every method of staying connected imaginable.

Still, I feel a million miles away. Bundled up to my eyeballs in hundreds of dollars worth of fleece, down, and smart wool every morning, I walk down Waterfront Drive on my way to the theatre and pass the statue of the Selkirk Settlers; the three of them huddling tightly together against the wind, their flimsy threadbare kilts barely covering their underfed asses, thousands of miles away from  families they would almost certainly never see again, and feel like a bit of a wuss.

Six Weeks Without My Family

Saying Goodbye is Terrible

Fiona Highet is working on a play in Winnipeg while her family’s in Toronto

The goodbye was torture.  Next time I’ll leave under cover of night.  The day was all about waiting – straight out of The Places You’ll Go by Dr. Seuss – we spent the day in the waiting place.

I was weepy all day, as was my daughter.  Poor thing:  a cold and a few bad sleeps compounded to make her especially tender and she spent the day in and out of tears, hugging me and demanding to be told “one good reason” why she couldn’t come with me to Winnipeg.  She ran after the taxi blowing kisses and I cried all the way out to the airport.

My darling son, whose warm strong body and easy laugh I cannot imagine six weeks without, gave me a hug and returned to playing with his cousin. When I called out a final goodbye, he sent back a sing-song “ok goodnight”.  I’m sure he’ll miss me sometime…