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Christmas

A Slightly Ambivalent Christmas

By Brendan Murphy

Recently, a friend on the Facebook was explaining the process of telling his kid that Santa wasn’t real. It was, like many things to do with parenting, quietly hilarious and heartbreaking, in large part because of what a clear and irreversible childhood milestone it was. Our son is 19 months old and this being his second Christmas it occurred to me that maybe it was time to begin teaching him about the Santa I will eventually concede had never been real.

PICTURED: THE SPIRIT of CHRISTMAS, NOT OUR SON

But how does this work? Do we have to explain Christmas to him or does he just absorb it all by being near a bunch of Christmas for a while? He recently met Santa for the first time (a very svelte Montreal Santa, btw) and he clearly visually understands the concept. Even if he did call him “Dada,” despite the fact I look nothing like Santa. Either way, I can’t really see this being the year that he understands why that guy dressed in red at daycare bought him a nicer present that his parents did.

Awesome Parents

8 Awesome Photos of the Beatles as Dads

The fab four were fab dads too

The Beatles are hands-down one of the coolest bands of all time (hence our ever-amazing Bunch Guide to The Beatles for Kids). But after coming across this adorable photo of Paul McCartney with his baby tucked sweetly into his shirt yesterday, we were reminded of what awesome parents they were, too.

Inspired, we set out to scrounge up the very sweetest pictures of the Fab Four as Fab Fathers. The result? 8 absolutely adorable photos that have us swooning over The Beatles lads all over again.

Photos from Telegraph UK, DaddyTypes, George is Love, FanPop, SSPLPrints, FeelNumb, Favim

Father's Day

12 Awesome Vintage Dad Photos

Stylish dads across the decades, we salute you!

Dad style never goes out of fashion, and to prove our point, we’ve rounded up these 12 amazing photos as photographic proof of awesome dads across the decades. From stripey shirts and aviators (above) to wool coats and bundled babies (below) these vintage dads all have one thing in common: wicked style.

The only thing that could challenge the coolness of that super computer? This dad’s burly mega-beard. Amazing.

 

Before people wore huge glasses as an ironic style statement, some dads were quite happy to wear them as just a regular style statement.

 

Like father, like sons. This dapper trio looks completely casual leaning against a fence, but their duds say otherwise.

 

Photobooth pics are meant for secret kisses… oh, and funny baby faces, too.

Miscellany

Jimmy Fallon’s New Sitcom “Guys With Kids” Promises Bro Banter, Favourite Child Stars and Real Life Laughs

What’s not to like about this dad-ass sitcom?

Some people say dads are the new moms. We reckon engaged parents empower each other, but we do love us some loving dads — from breastfeeding papas to hipster kings who make Tinkerbell pancakes. So naturally, we were excited to hear that Jimmy Fallon produced a sitcom about the trials and tribulations of life as a new dad. Give the pilot clip a watch to see what’s to come this fall:

The show will follow three dads homies (Jesse Bradford – the single guy, Zach Cregger – the working guy and Anthony Anderson – the stay at home guy) as they navigate the murky waters of parenting in the early stages. They juggle work with family life, debate about kids style choices, and fret over what to feed your kid when the bar you’re at only has 2% milk and he’s at the whole milk stage — you know, the tight jams of parenting.

News

The Dads Are Stressed Out, Hillary Clinton’s Anti-Bullying PSA and Having Kids Makes You Happy

What the cool parents are reading today: a dad reads a book to his baby

1. Do you and your kid have complementary temperaments? A stubborn kid and a stubborn parents makes for a lot of clashes, but a stubborn kid with a super easy going parent isn’t necessarily any better.

2. Love and admiration for Hillary Clinton grows with an anti-bullying PSA that addresses the bullies rather than the victims. She says, “If you’re the bully, if you’re bullying someone else, please take a hard look at your actions and the pain you’ve caused.”

3. “The overall net effect of having kids is positive.” Congrats parents! Though it might not seem like it when  you step on a piece of lego, two new studies show that people with kids might be happier than their childless peers.

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The New Dad Image, Untouched Photos in Seventeen and Is There Really a Dad War?

What the cool parents are reading today: dudes group dads from what to expect when  you're expecting

1. Does What to Expect When You’re Expecting come off as an uber chick flick? Billboards are really highlighting the dad group in the movie, The Dudes, in order to make the dads seem like cool, fun, relatable people, you know, like how women feel about Sandra Bullock and Ginnifer Goodwin. It’s the new dad image. Previously, the dads have always had a more Homer Simpson vibe to them in marketing. Bunch’s own Rebecca Brown tells the Globe and Mail why this is silly.

2. Speaking of the new dad image, one of the dads from the Rise of the Dad Wars article says there is no war, it’s just a ploy. Sure, sometimes he feels different when it’s just him and the moms at the playground, but he’s not alienated.

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Postpartum Depression for Dads, Losing Baby Weight and Bohemian Rhapsody for Your Morning Commute

What the cool parents are reading today: a dad holds his newborn baby

1. Turns out that new dads are just as likely to experience postpartum depression as moms. Unlike new moms though, it’s not the postpartum hormones messing everything up, it’s that “fathers are more susceptible to mental health problems as they take on a more active role in parenting,” according to one of the authors of a recent study.

2. Did you struggle/are you struggling to lose baby weight? Here’s a helpful guide of what not to do from the Hairpin’s wonderful Nicole Cliffe.

3. A new theory as to what causes autism: chemical cocktails. “It is likely not one bodily insult that’s driving up [autism] cases, but a number of contaminants and exposures acting in concert,” according to environmental writer Brita Belli.

Miscellany

Docs We’re Dying to See: The Other F-Word

We just generally love punk rock dads

We’ve been fortunate enough to come across a lot of good dads. The Good Men Project and GeekDad are just some of the sites featuring awesome fathers who write about their kids and families. And while good dads are good dads, we’ve got a bit of a soft spot for bad boys who grow up to be fun, caring and loving fathers. Take Vice co-founder Gavin McInnes, whose Twitter bio says he “ain’t no nice guy”, but then he goes and shows us his Tinkerbell pancake technique for example. Or crack fiend-turned-Superdad Chris Shulgan. Anyway, all that is to say that when we saw the trailer for The Other F Word, we knew it was a movie we had to see.

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News Round-Up March 9: Mom Purses, the Huggies Dad Test and How to Prepare Kids for Daylight Savings Time

What we’re reading today:

1. Want to find your kid’s strengths? Would you try an aptitude test?

2. Daylight Savings this weekend! Here’s how to help your kids adjust — tips from Bunch pal Tracey Ruiz the Sleep Doula!

3. A new Huggies campaign insults dads, presumes that modern-day dads don’t have to do all the parenting stuff that moms do.

4. For the moms out there, since becoming a mom, do you no longer have control over what’s in your purse? Are there now legos? Extra toddler socks and underwear? Snacks?

5. Speaking of changes once you become a mom, what about all the weird things pregnancy does to you? Check out how Hilary Duff handles the hormonal changes she experiences while pregnant:

Photo by Wouter van Doorn via Flickr

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News Round-Up Feb. 9: No Child Left Behind Changes, Babies Feeding Themselves and a Literal Interpretation of Daddy Day Care

What we’re reading today:

1. U.S. President Obama has loosen the requirements for former president George Bush’s No Child Left Behind policy in 10 states. No Child Left Behind required all students to be proficient in math and reading by 2014, but led to some educators “teaching to the test” so that kids would have decent test scores.

2. Should someone who’s written about their threesome experience write a parenting book? Slate’s doing some digging on Bringing Up Bébé author Pamela Druckerman.

3. Once you’ve introduced solid foods to your baby, let the kid feed himself.

4. According to the U.S. Census Bureau, when Dad watches the kids it counts as “child care”. Um, why isn’t it just straight up parenting?

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News Round-Up September 19: Modern Family Ruled the Emmys, Story Time in Malls and What the Dads Said About That Testosterone Study

What we’re reading today:

 

1. How do you feel about publisher-sponsored story-time in malls when libraries are in danger of so many cuts?

2. Two of our pals, HerBadMother Catherine Connors and PhDinParenting Annie Urban take opposite sides in the great formula advertising debate. Should formula ads be banned, or would banning them make women who have difficulty breastfeeding just feel shameful failures at motherhood?

3. Remember that study that found men’s testosterone levels dropped once they became fathers? Here’s what some dads said.

4. Hoping an anonymous donor will help you grow you very own Weasley? The world’s largest sperm bank is turning away redheads.

5. And who watched (or read the highlights of) the Emmys last night? Modern Family got a whole whack of awards, including best supporting roles for Julie Bowen and Ty Burrell. Let’s look at a classic Phil and Claire moment:

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News Round-Up September 13: Babies Bring Dad’s Testosterone Down A Notch, School Fundraisers and the Science of Naps

What we’re reading today:

1. One group says schools need to do away with fundraising. While some schools raise tens of thousands of dollars, others pull in two-figure amounts. The schools where parents can’t afford pizza days and $300 donations miss out on the fieldtrips, athletic equipment and other bonuses associated with going to a wealthy school.

2. Does your kid need to nap? When and for how long? Researchers have been looking into the complication study of naps. When they’re really little, being awake is so exhausting they need to rest every so often. That sounds good.

3. Babies lower dads’ testosterone. Caring for a baby is hard! So Nature figured she’d soften those male edges to make them loyal and caring and great partners for raising kids.